Hello, and welcome to my site. Yup.. this is me to the right. The
photo was taken on 11/18/07. Let's see... you want to know a little
more about me. Where do I start? Well I will start with the most
important so that if you are not interested you can leave without
wasting to much of your time. My #1 goal in life is to be all I can
be for the Lord. I have grown greatly in the Lord in the past few
years and I plan on continuing on this path for eternity. I don't
ever plan on turning back to my old life. I am divorced and have
been for over 12 years now. We were seperated for two years before
we became divorced. We are still friends and talk often but that is
all. We have two boys together. One is in his second year of
college and the other is a senior in high school. They both are
wonderful, tall (over 6 feet) boys. Even though we are no longer
together I feel that it is important to our children that they see
we are still on talking terms. After all they didn't get to pick
their parents. After my seperation I did some dating but most of
them were short because we did not have the same interests. One of
these relationships ended up being a long relationship, about ten
years. When we met I had walked away from the Lord. We ended up
having a daughter together and she is now in sixth grade. She can
be wonderful too sometimes. No, I really love her but you have to
understand that she is coming into her hormones and I am not sure
which one of us is going to live through them. (lol) Her dad is
gone now and has been for a few years. I am not sure about getting
back into the dating scene but my pastor said it is time. This is
the first time I have ever signed up on a site at all and I am a
little nervous about it. I am trusting in the Lord that he will
send me the right person this time that will not leave but will
stay and mean it this time. Why have the others left, well that is
not my story to tell but it was from their past catching up with
them not something I did. Sorry but that's all I can say, it
wouldn't be right for me to tell someone elses story. Besides this
is suppose to be about me not them. I love to laugh and have fun. I
am kind of witty or at least that is what the people at work are
telling me. I usually have people laughing until we are all crying.
I am kind of fast on my feet when it comes to replies (thought you
should know that if you are IM me). I like to make people laugh but
I know when to be serious. I have to be honest and say that I can
be a little sarcastic sometimes but all in good humor. I am a
loving person and do not like to see anyone hurting. I love to hang
out with family. We spend a lot of time together doing things
together. I would rather be outside then in the house most of the
time. I like to feel special but I don't like being called "pet
names". Angel, babe, baby, sugar, don't like them. I will know if
someone has reviewed my site first by how they respond to me in
their e-mails. I am very honest and don't mean to hurt anyones
feelings but if you say something I don't like, I will let you
know. Well, lastly I work a 40 hour job, go to two bible studies a
week, attend two church services and help my parents out a few days
a week. I am busy but if you have the time to talk I would love to
hear from you. I am currently sharing computer time with my senior
who is a Halo and Guitar Hero freak so send me a note if I am not
on and I will get back to you as soon as I can. Best wishes and God
bless, cbcinder. P.S. Favorite scripture in the entire bible since
I was a small child, Revelations 3:20.
